Monday, August 19, 2013

1 week home!

Yesterday marked 1 week home for us!  We had a super busy week, with lots of "firsts".  I really had no intention of continuing to blog once we were home, but I have decided it is a great way to log her milestones and something for me to look back on and see how far we have come, so if this is boring to you, so sorry! :)

Chloe's week of firsts included:

  • first haircut
  • first grocery "car" ride
  • first trip to Target... Mommy's FAVORITE store! :) 
  • first time meeting lots of people! 
  • first time riding in a Barbie Jeep
  • first time getting her nails painted
  • first time playing with play doh
The week was also filled with LOTS of appointments that included the pediatrician, dentist, ENT to check her hearing and ears, and speech.  She also got to see her brother (Jackson) get his cast off and I had a dentist appointment myself!  Parker had football 3 nights (and it would have been 5 but 2 were cancelled because of the rain), 3 orientations for school, more than 15 loads of laundry, kids homework, and countless nights of 3 and 4 AM "wake ups" and we are all exhausted!  We were able to catch up on some sleep this weekend, clean the house, do a "big" grocery store trip, and spend time with the kids.  She is bonding with her brothers and sister well and they all enjoy her... sometimes even like to "fight" about who will sit by her, carry her, dress her, etc.  They are very fascinated by the fact that she can sign "more music" and we have to remind them that she is not a puppet! :) 

In the coming weeks she will be seen by an occupational therapist, physical therapist, developmental pediatrician, and the cleft/lip team at MCG.  Today I started back keeping "baby" Parker (whom I dearly love and I'm so thankful to be able to watch him while his mommy teaches school) and I even made it to the gym by 6AM!  Chloe can now sign please, thank you, more, music, potty, and eat.  She LOVES music and will try anything when it comes to food.  She did not like our dog Sadie at all and would want to be held when she came near her but this morning she has decided she might not be so bad after all and has petted her several times today on her own.  

We are blessed with meals from our Sunday School class and calls and texts from friends with words of encouragement.  It means so much to have so many people supporting us.  It's a journey, the road might be long, but we will celebrate the milestones and trust God that his plan is perfect!  

Our Hope in Him, 
Katie 
                                                    Grocery Store
                                                   Going into Target
                                                  Playing playdoh with the Wiley's
                                                        Twins... My new friend Emmy :)
                                                     watching Jackson get his cast off
                                                      First haircut! :)

Sunday, August 11, 2013

It's time... We are bringing her HOME!


To say we are excited is an understatement. Our short stay in Hong Kong was 
relatively uneventful. We got up this morning (Sunday morning here) at 4AM to 
get ready and leave for the airport. It was a short 45 minute taxi ride, and 
Chloe kept looking at us like why in the world have you woken me up in the 
middle of the night and now you have me riding in yet another car?? Ha! We 
arrived at the airport with plenty of time, but we had a little problem with 
immigration. When we arrived at the train station on Friday they forgot to put 
the sticker in my passport that said I had in fact arrived in HK and was allowed 
to be there. We were escorted to a back room where we were questioned about 
how/when we got there etc. They took all of our passports, made copies, looked 
on a computer, and after about 20 minutes released us. Phew! I will say they 
were very nice the entire time, I just knew I HAD to get on that plane!! 

The first flight was a 4 1/2 hour flight to Tokyo, where we are now, waiting to 
board our plane that takes us all the way to ATLANTA!! It went smoothly and 
Chloe rested some and watched a movie. The next flight, is a 12 hour flight and 
we are praying that it is smooth too with lots of sleeping. :) We are scheduled 
to land in Atlanta at 3:20 Sunday afternoon (GA time!!). 

I'm ready to get back into my routine... Taking care of my kids, washing 
clothes, carpooling to and fro, cooking dinner (um, ok maybe not), cleaning the 
house, and doing paperwork. Oh, wait!! I'm done with paperwork!! Or at least for 
now I am.... :) 

Sunday night, August 11th we will be united as a FAMILY of 7!!! This song and 
word have come to mind many times throughout this process...


I'm thankful for Gods love, his provision, peace, and guidance. I don't deserve 
anything, but I am thankful that he choose us to be Chloe's parents! 

Much love to all of you! You have helped us, supported us, and prayed for us. 
See you all VERY soon! 

Love, 
Jeff & Katie 
 
P.S. for any last minute flight changes, you can check the blog. :) 

And a few more pics...





Thursday, August 8, 2013

Thursday, August 8


It's OFFICIAL!!  The last portion of paperwork is complete.  Today we went to 
the US Consulate, took an oath that our paperwork was correct, signed a few more 
papers, and we were on our way.  Tomorrow at 3:30 pm our guide will pick up 
Chloe's visa so that we can bring her home!  

The rest of the day we spent at a toy and gift wholesale mart called One link, 
with floors and floors of basically junk, most of which we had never even seen 
before.  It was interesting and was indoors so it gave us a cool environment to 
be in.  We went back to Shamian Island, ate lunch and picked up something that 
we had seen the other day while we were there and wanted to purchase.  We didn't 
get back until almost 5:00 so Chloe was WORN out!  She didn't get a nap or rest 
time today, and we could tell! :)  She was a champ while we were out, but 
towards the end let us know she was done with all this running around.  :) She 
does not like to walk for very long, so the hotel stroller (never fear, it was 
cleaned and sanitized...ha ha) has come in handy.  We could not have made it 
without it.  I think it will take her awhile to build up the strength to walk a 
lot, but we can work on that once we are home.  

I am all packed and ready to leave for Hong Kong.  We don't leave until 3:30 
tomorrow, and we will take a train from Guangzhou to Hong Kong.  We will stay 
there Friday and Saturday night, and then FLY home on Sunday!!  We leave Sunday 
morning at 8:00 (which is Saturday night at 8:00) and we fly from Hong Kong to 
Tokyo, then Tokyo to Detroit, Detroit to Atlanta, and then Atlanta to Augusta!  
Whew!  Please pray for us as the flight from Tokyo to Detroit is 12 hours.  It 
was long for me, I can't imagine for poor Chloe, that does not even know what we 
are saying will think.  Please pray for no delays, no sickness, and ease of the 
long 24 hours of travel time that we will have.  

Our Hope in Him,
Jeff & Katie







Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Wednesday, August 7


This morning we went to the Yuntai Garden.  It was beautiful but hot, and we 
walked around for about an hour.  We have had our picture taken but this was the 
first time someone asked if they could have a picture with us.  She sent her 
kids to say "hi" and they were very proud that they could say it, and who can 
say no to two cute little kids. :)  

After the garden we went to the pearl and jade wholesale market.  It reminded me 
a little of the mart in Atlanta, and had floor after floor of pearls, jade, and 
jewelry.  We left there and came back to the hotel.  Chloe enjoyed her famous 
noodles for lunch and then we took a nap while Jeff went to the supermarket to 
get us some more bottled water and noodles to last us for the rest of the trip.  
We went to the pool for a little while after our naps and then came back to get 
ready for dinner.  We had heard wonderful things about a Tai restaurant called 
Banana Leaf so we ventured out to try something new.  As picky of a eater as I 
am, I was hungry (I've run out of my crackers or granola bars that I eat for 
lunch) and ready to try something new.  The restaurant was a short walk away, 
about 10 minutes.  We had planned to view the menu before we committed to eating 
there but we were swept in and seated before we had a chance to look.  The 
restaurant was really neat, decorated with interesting decor, and they even had 
a group playing the guitar and singing.  We ordered some rice, black pepper 
beef, and spring rolls for us, and Chloe had chicken & corn soup in coconut 
milk.  (I know, try not to be jealous about the soup. :))  She loved the soup 
and ate two bowls (small) of rice.  She wanted more rice but after the episode 
we had last week, we just had to say no.  

Tomorrow is our BIG DAY!  Our consulate appointment is the very last, yes the 
LAST thing we have to do here!  No more paperwork... hooray!  Our appointment is 
at 8:30 AM, which is Wednesday at 8:30 pm Georgia time.  Chloe LOVES music and 
dancing, and is pretty content and quiet.  She finds one thing and is totally 
fascinated with it for hours, sometimes days, and then moves on to something 
else.  She has learned to sign more, all done, and we are working on the sign 
for potty.  She can say momma, dada, and bye-bye.  We are beyond blessed that 
God has chosen us to be her parents!  He could have chosen anyone, but he choose 
us!  

Through adoption we learn to live.
Through adoption we learn the joy of acceptance.
Through adoption we learn the blessing of belonging.  

This sweet girl that God has made part of our family will never spend another 
minute, another day, or another hour tied to her bed.  She will never not hear I 
love you.  I might not be a super mom, but I promise to love this little girl 
that God has trusted me with until the day he calls me home.  The road will not 
be easy, and the days might be long, but I will put my trust in God and rest in 
his sovereign control.  There are so many friends and family that have helped us 
through this process.  You have prayed for us, supported us, and financially 
helped us.  God made the impossible, possible!  and I am beyond blessed and 
thankful for each one of you!

Our Hope in Him,
Jeff & Katie

Temple from Tuesday
 This is the Budda that we people go to in order pray for another child - Jeff told me to walk away, LOL
 Yuntai Gardens

 Us being silly:0

 Chloe dancing with daddy
 Learning to twirl!

Tuesday in Guangzhou


This morning we went with our guide Elvin to the Six Banyan Temple.  It was 
similar to the temple in Fuzhou, but not as large.   After we went to a shop 
that had different items that are unique to this area and looked around.  We 
came back to our hotel and rested and then went to the pool.  Chloe enjoyed the 
water again today and was a little more comfortable.  We got her a swim ring and 
she LOVES it!  Wanted to sleep with it tonight too. :) 
This afternoon we decided to head to the circus that we hear so many wonderful 
things about.  It is about an hour taxi ride, so we decided to try the subway 
once again.  It took us about 35 minutes and it takes you right to the park area 
and buses shuttle you to the different areas.  (They have a safari park, 
amusement park, water park, etc.) When we FINALLY found someone that spoke some 
English, we found out the show that seats 7000 was SOLD OUT tonight!  Ugh!  We 
spent the next 30 minutes walking and trying to go to another area to see if we 
could purchase tickets for tomorrow night.  We were not successful with that 
either.  We made it back to the subway, this time it was MUCH more crowded, and 
came back.  By this time we had been riding the subway back and forth or walking 
for 3 hours.  We were tired and hungry so we went to a local pizza restaurant.  
Jeff and I enjoyed some pizza while Chloe ate some minestrone soup.  She LOVED 
it!!  Ate the potatoes, carrots, green beans, everything and loved the broth 
too!  She had finally worked up an appetite.  I think we will all sleep good 
tonight!  

It is Tuesday night here, but Tuesday morning back at home.  Today was the kids 
first day of school.  I can not believe I have a 7th grader, 6th grader, 4th 
grader, and 3rd grader!  Wow, they are growing up WAY too fast!  For all of my 
friends that are teachers or work in the school system... I hope you have a 
wonderful first day!!  

Much love to all of you!
Jeff & Katie

Monday, August 5, 2013

Monday in Guangzhou


We had a great day today!  Jeff and I both agreed this has been our best day 
yet!  This morning we were on our own so we took a taxi to Shamian Island, about 
a 20 minute ride from our hotel.  This is where the US Consulate use to be and 
the area reminded us a lot of Savannah, with historical buildings, lots of trees 
and a park area that overlooked the Pearl River.  There were people dancing, 
singing, and playing their version of hacky sack, models and brides doing photo 
shoots and a few shops along the way.  We stayed there for a couple of hours and 
then headed back to our hotel.  Chloe napped and we rested and then decided we 
would try the pool here.  We were delighted to find several other families that 
are here adopting as well and ended up staying and talking for 3 hours.  One of 
the families we met are from Atlanta!  It was like we had known each forever.  I 
am so thankful God had our paths cross, and he knew just what I needed today!  
It was a great "pick me up".  Chloe wasn't to sure of the water at first, but 
ended up dancing and playing.  She did not want water splashed in her face, but 
overall she seemed to really enjoy it and she played on a slide as well. We got 
a recommendation that the Irish pub here was good and so we went there for 
dinner.  Chloe was better today, not 100% but improving still so we are 
thankful!  Her new "toy" of choice tonight was the paper coaster from the Irish 
Pub.  Maybe she is bringing it home for her Uncle Gordon? :)) 

Once again I was reminded to NOT worry.  God is ALWAYS on time... I need to 
TRUST HIM! 
Our HOPE in Him,
Jeff & Katie

The Pearl River
 Hacky sack in the park

 Photo Shoot
 Model
 STARBUCKS
 Chloe in the pool

 Dancing in the pool



Sunday, August 4, 2013

Sunday in Guangzhou


Last night Jeff went out to get food for us.  He went to several different 
restaurants trying to find something that I would eat too. :)  He settled on an 
Italian restaurant and brought us back some lasagna.  It was different, but ok.  
He was approached (and followed) by several different people asking for money or 
food.... which means, I can't go out by myself here I guess, or at least not at 
nighttime.  One lady followed him with her child across the street and spoke 
enough English to keep saying "food".  Once he hit the hotel and she saw the 
security guard, she turned around.  He felt bad for her but we don't want to be 
known for giving stuff out, and it's not like we don't stand out.  ha ha! He 
wanted to help her but just didn't know if that was the right thing to do or 
not.  

Today was a scheduled "rest" day for us, but we are feeling a little cooped up, 
so I think we will venture out on our own this afternoon.  Chloe is on the mend, 
and finally ate some food this morning for breakfast! We found out she likes 
bananas, the soft foods we know she can handle.  Last night was the first night 
since we have been here that I slept more than 4 hours without waking up for a 
long time.  I feel MUCH better this morning!  

We were able to go down to breakfast this morning together, the first time since 
Thursday.  The breakfast buffet is huge here too and has a decent variety of 
western food along with local favorites.  This girl is CRAVING some fruit and a 
good salad, the first thing I am eating when I get home!  I have never been a 
big meat eater but a good burger sounds good too! ha! :) or the famous chocolate 
chip cookies made by our friend Noelle! :)  

There is a garden area outside the hotel with a view from the restaurant area.  
It is beautiful and peaceful.  We took a walk around and you will see from the 
pictures that Chloe wasn't too sure about it.   You go into the area by stepping 
on large rocks and crossing over the water.  Even thought she was being held, 
she wasn't too sure about it.  She wouldn't even look at the camera, she kept 
her eyes on all the fish that were very hungry.  :)  

One week and we will be HOME!  Excited to spend this week with my girl, and as 
my friend reminded me, it's like an extended hospital stay after you have a 
baby.  A great bonding time!  I like her perspective, and we have missed out on 
6 years of her life, so this one on one time with her  has been good.  I know 
she is going to LOVE her brothers and sister though... and I can't wait for them 
to meet her.  

Much love to all of you!  
Jeff & Katie

Chloe loves this bag of colorful rubber bands for her hair!  She tends to carry it around wherever they may venture to!
 A waterfall on the hotel grounds






 The Garden Hotel in Guangzhou, China







Saturday, August 3, 2013

A New Day


A New Day:
The last 36 hours have been worrisome, exhausting, and down right scary, but we 
think we have turned a corner.  Chloe got a little sick in the taxi on our way 
back to the hotel.  We thought it was from being car sick or hot.  She slept 
through the night but woke up Friday morning crying and then she started 
throwing up.  Thankfully we did not have to go anywhere until 2:30 when we had 
to check out of our hotel.  We began praying, and praying, and praying.  At 2:30 
she was still sick.  Our guide came to pick us up and was worried that she 
didn't need to fly.  She said we needed to see the doctor so we agreed since it 
was located in our hotel.  The doctor said she probably wasn't adjusting to the 
food changes (which we knew) and that she just needed to eat something and drink 
some hot water.  She said if she wasn't better by the time we got to Guangzhou, 
we needed to head to the hospital.  She also gave us some type of medicine for 
her, that smelled very strong.  They said it tasted bad but would help, but 
honestly the smell was so strong I couldn't bring myself to give it to her.  
Plus, I didn't know what it was.  We traveled to the airport where we waited for 
4 hours for our flight, and then boarded our airplane for our 1 1/2 hour flight.  
Chloe's first plane ride, wasn't so fun. :( Five outfit changes, multiple bags 
(thank goodness for ziplock bags! they have a new use now!), and hours of 
crying, whining, or moaning, and we arrived at our hotel in Guangzhou a little 
after 10:00 pm on Friday night.  The people here were very kind and trying to 
help by bringing her hot water, she was thirsty and wanted it, but would gulp it 
down and then it would come right back up.  They were so worried that one of the 
guys that worked with the airline came over to us and said he didn't think we 
should fly with her.  Um, you should have seen the look on Jeff's face.  He 
replied with, no, we HAVE to go on this flight.  Chloe was so thirsty but we 
were trying to give her stomach a rest that she jumped up and grabbed another 
ladies water bottle!!!  The lady wanted me to give it to her, but I kept shaking 
my head and just picked her up and walked away.  I have to give it to Jeff.... 
he was wonderful throughout the entire day.  No one likes dealing with a child 
that throws up, and certainly do not want to be thrown up on.  I was already 
feeling queasy before this started and by the time we got to the airport and we 
had not eaten anything all day but crackers, I really was feeling bad.  I am so 
thankful that he was with me through it all, and really cleaned up more times 
than I did, carried her through the entire airport, held her on the plane, etc.  
Neither one of us ever got food yesterday (other than crackers and granola bar), 
but he handled it all much better than I did.  

She slept through the night without throwing up, but moaned, whined, and tossed 
and turned the entire night.  We were up and down all night.  This morning we 
had our doctor visit for the adoption which included a picture, ear, eyes, 
weight check, and blood work.  We tried to move our appointment to another day 
since she was so sick, but we couldn't so we headed out praying that she would 
be ok.  I am happy to report that she did not throw up and although she is weak 
we made it!  They wouldn't let us go in with her for her blood work (Mommy & 
Daddy didn't like that, and Jeff said he hoped she threw up on them... ha) but 
she came out mad that they had put a bandaid on her.  As soon as we took that 
off she was fine.  (This sounds like her sister Anna Kate who use to not like 
bandaids either :) She kept pointing to the different places that they stuck 
her, apparently they weren't successful the first time.  As much as I dreaded 
going in fear she would get sick, the room was filled with many, many children 
being adopted!  What a precious sight.... LESS ORPHANS all around us!  Although 
we didn't know a soul in there, it felt like we knew them all.  

It is Saturday afternoon now and we are back at the hotel.  Chloe has been 
sleeping off and on all day, but has had some more sprite and just a few bites 
of some broth with noodles.  We are thankful she seems to be on the mend.  
Please continue to pray for her that she continues to improve and get her 
strength back.  

We were very sad to leave our guide Penny yesterday.  She was very knowledgeable 
and kind, and she was the one that introduced us to our daughter!  Jeff was able 
to write down some bible verses for her and share with her one more time before 
we left.  She said, "I think this will be good.  I am sad sometimes and I think 
this is what I need".  Please continue to pray for her.  

The hotel here in Guangzhou is beautiful!  We have a suite, so the little extra 
space is nice.  :) Our guide in Guangzhou is Elvin and he seems like he is going 
to be wonderful too!  The driving here is much better, just busy like Atlanta.  
He said that Fuzhou is one of the worst places for driving!  We weren't too 
surprised by that. :)  Tomorrow is a "rest" day for us.  We plan on just hanging 
out here in hopes of Chloe getting well before we start another busy week! 

In closing, I read this today and found it very fitting in my life.  Maybe you 
will too! :)

 God has perfect timing; never early, never late.  It takes a little patience 
and a whole lot of FAITH... but it's worth the wait!! 

Our hope in Him,
Jeff & Katie

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Thursday in Fuzhou

Thursday in Fuzhou:
This morning we headed out with our guide to the market street.  We walked in 
and out of the shops and enjoyed learning about the unique items special to 
their province.  Fuzhou is known for their fish balls so our guide wanted us to 
try them.  For those of you who know me well, know there is NO WAY I was trying 
that.  My stomach was churning at the thought so I very politely declined.  Jeff 
on the other hand tasted them and liked them.  It looked similar to a wonton and 
had minced pork inside and then was floating in some liquid, oh I mean it had a 
broth that surrounded the delicate fish balls.  :) 
After the market we went back to the hotel room and rested.  I went downstairs 
to run on the treadmill while Jeff stayed in the room with Chloe.  I sure miss 
bootcamp back home, but it felt good to run.  (Side note - Chloe woke up at 4AM 
today!  Not sure what was up with that, but she did not get up, didn't even sit 
up, just hummed for 2 1/2 hours until we got up and told her to get up.) We knew 
she would be tired this afternoon and she ended up sleeping for about 45 minutes 
and then we woke her up because we didn't want her to not sleep tonight.  She 
was a little ill when she woke up but quickly snapped out of it.  We went to a 
different mall (only place to go that has air conditioner) and the taxi ride to 
a from was another wild ride.  I got to experience my first squatty potty 
(EEEKK!) and no soap anywhere!!  After awhile, purell just doesn't seem to get 
the job done.  On the way back from the mall, Chloe got sick.  She threw up a 
little, luckily more like spit up.  Not sure if she was car sick, too hot, or 
both.  She took a bath and is happy again.  We have decided to wait until we get 
home to try new foods with her.  I think her little body is going through lots 
of changes and the different foods might be a little too much.  The first 5 
years of her life she was fed with a bottle, bottle only so I'm sure digesting 
some of the stuff she has tried with us is a little difficult for her.  Praying 
that she is not sick and it was just car sick.  
Tomorrow we do not have anything until we meet the police man at 3:00 so he can 
verify our passports and give us Chloe's visa, then we head to the airport to go 
to Guangzhou.  We are looking forward to going there! 
Our Hope in HIM!
Jeff & Katie 
P.S. - Please keep Jackson in your prayers.  He goes tomorrow morning to the 
orthopedist to rule out a growth plate fracture in his foot. :(  I do not like 
being so far away and not being able to help my kids when they need me.  I am 
very thankful that my mom and dad (and wonderful friends) have been so gracious 
to step in and take care of things while we are gone.  I know he is in good 
hands and I am thankful for those that have helped us getting things taken care 
of with his foot!